Laura Hess
Creating Tomorrow’s Joy Today.

Transformation Through Connection

If you’re feeling pressed for time, give more of it away. Sounds like an oxymoron, I know. But it’s true. (You’ve heard the saying, “If you want something done, give it to a busy woman,” right? That’s true, too.) Studies show that helping others makes you feel like you have more time for yourself.

In research done at The Wharton School, participants were divided into two groups. One group did tasks like writing to a sick child or tutoring at-risk students, while the others were given busy work or told they could go home early. Those who completed the prosocial activities perceived their time as more abundant and spent longer on additional tasks. After a draining day, you may feel like crashing in front of the TV or focusing on your own to do list, but doing things for others will make you happier and more productive.

Don’t believe me? Test it yourself.

 

Here are some ideas to get you started:

  • Call a family member. If you live too far apart to visit often, you can still phone regularly. Make it a video call so they can see you.

  • Volunteer in your community. Find a worthy cause you want to support. You could sort cans at a food bank or deliver meals to senior citizens. Do it yourself or bring a friend. Or even make it a family project.

  • If you still work, help a coworker. Notice when a colleague is under pressure. Ask what you can do to help, and then do it. Maybe you can proofread a document or return some of their phone calls until they can catch up.

  • Greet your neighbors. Introduce yourself to the families who live on your block. Bring them extra tomatoes from your garden, or invite them over for coffee.

  • Chat with a stranger. Give a compliment to a passerby who’s wearing stylish eyeglasses or has a nice smile. Ask someone for directions on how to use the local public transportation or discuss the new bakery selections at the grocery store.

  • Read to kids at the library. Turn stories into a ritual. Take turns reading to each other and inventing your own tales.

  • Date your spouse. Set aside time to spend as a couple. Go for dinner and a movie or stroll through an art gallery or shopping mall.

  • Hang out with your friends. Nurture your friendships with regular lunches and potluck dinners. Share laughter and deep conversations.

 

How to Be More Present in the Time You Give to Others:

  1. Live in the moment. Focus on whoever you’re with instead of dwelling on the past or thinking about the future. Put aside any distractions.

  2. Listen closely. Practice attentive listening. Nod your head and provide encouraging feedback. Ask pertinent questions and paraphrase what you heard to ensure you understand the message.

  3. Make eye contact. Meet the other person’s gaze. Let them know they’re being seen as well as heard.

  4. Provide validation. You can accept what others say even when you disagree. Recognize their feelings matter. Tell them they have your support even when you have different opinions.

  5. Show enthusiasm. Take a sincere interest in the lives of others. Remember how much others have done to help you, from teaching you to read to curing your illnesses. Care about their happiness and well-being.

  6. Hide your phone. If you’re tempted to check your phone, stow it out of sight. Turn the volume off for a while.

 

Being generous with your time will make you feel like you have more hours in your day. Show your family, friends, and colleagues that you care by giving them your time and attention.

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I truly do believe that joy is more than just a feeling — it’s a vital nutrient for your soul. Just like how vitamins nourish your body, joy nourishes your spirit, uplifting your mood, sparking creativity, and filling your days with positivity (also known as “glimmers”). Imagine waking up every morning with a heart full of joy, ready to embrace each day’s possibilities. That’s the power of the joy vitamin.

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